Attitude and Life
"The ultimate foundation for bringing change in attitude is learning. The learning makes the goals achieved later or sooner. One should not leave making the right efforts."
The talent works when right opportunities come in life and that depends upon luck also. However, once you encash a opportunity, it's your attitude which determines how much time you stay to move upwards. It is rightly said, "Be prepared Always with right approach to embrace the every task in your life. Time and Wisdom is tested with right attitude and behavior for successful life and being exemplary for others."
"Let's work on our attitude - to be always being a volunteer, humble behavior with courtesy, courage, confidence, consistency and sweet voice in communication."
Learning:
Learning is a life-time process and everyone should keep the mind active to learn new things from the surrounding world. The learning bring knowledge which affects the skill-set of the persons and ultimately changes the attitude with improving the outlook through which the person looks the world. Everyone should encourage and inspire himself, subordinates, family members to learn new skills, no matter how far he/she is in his/her career; because with the fast change in the environment it is required to constantly improve the skills. The real professional guidance to someone is, to improve the skills as per the upcoming requirements from the surrounding.
A baby is born and sent to school for pre-nursery, nursery, primary, and higher classes so that he or she can become educated enough to survive in the world. The environment affects the ideology, thought process and accordingly conduct and habits come in life. Most of the time, the children of higher society outperform than the children of the middle class people but not always. Even sometimes, the children of poor families become successful than the others. Attitude is not originated from the parents and family background, but it is developed according to the situations and life-style a child faced in life.
Change in Attitude and Life:
It is well known that the genes affect the
character of a person but the attitude is not bound by the genes, it is
developed and changed according to the will power, environment, learning, and
various other factors. Cedar rightly explained, “Each gene of DNA, is an
instruction for one component of the body and genes don’t change as a result of
environment.” According to the blood chemistry, whatever comes in life is due
to genes and a person cannot change the same such as the way of walking, watching,
thinking, learning, and doing depend upon the character which is directly
affected with the genes. However, the attitude comes from the learning and also
changed with the learning; it can be negative or positive i.e. pessimistic or
optimistic totally depends upon the thought process of the person.
Yes, the attitude can be changed and with the
change in attitude, the whole life of a person is changed. The negative
attitude or pessimistic thought process can be broken and converted into
positive attitude or optimistic thought process. On the one hand, the negative
attitude is considered as slow poison, restricting person to achieve success by
creating doubts in the mind and on the other side, the positive attitude is
considered most important for the success by motivating person with boosting
will power to perform higher than the normal level.
It is rightly quoted, "मैं चलता गया, रास्ते मिलते गये !"
"राह के काँटे फूल बनकर खिलते गये !!"
"ये जादू नहीं, आशीर्वाद है मेरे अपनों का !"
"वरना उसी राह पर लाखों फिसलते गये !!"
Never think that you are alone, even think that you are sufficient to deal all difficult situations. " कभी यह मत सोचो कि आप अकेले हो बल्कि यह सोचो की आप अकेले ही काफी हो"
Attitude and Brain’s function:
The attitude and thought process are positively
linked with each other and affects both body and mind. The brain’s function is
controlled by a person with the will-power whatever a person desires and
commits, the brain supports to achieve the same. Even if the situations are
adverse, the person can perform well to an extent through commitment and will-power.
The attitude is the source of commitment and will-power. The moment, a person
loses hope, the commitment is gone and will-power also goes down and the entire
efforts seem to be failed. With positive attitude, a person becomes able to face
the fluctuations in the life and stays firm to achieve objectives and overall
aim of the life.
Success and Positive Attitude:
In simple words, the positive attitude is to never
lose hope of getting succeed in a particular job or task. It is ‘never never
never give up’ attitude which provides constant energy to stay firm and
committed for achievement of an objective. It is well known that the life is a
combination of up and down in business, job, relations, functions etc. The
problems always come to disrupt the life and it is positive attitude which
empowers person to stay firm and face the problems with adequate energy and get
the things settled. In simple words, the success is nothing then the positive
changes in life. With positive attitude, a person always thinks, “I can do it”
and such thought process which is optimistic empowers the person to sharpen the
skills and get success easily. The more optimistic a person is, the more
efficiently and effectively he performs his functions.
Learning and Attitude:
Learning never end is life and the attitude
improves with each learning. When a person studies and qualifies matriculation,
then graduation, then post-graduation degrees; with each learning, his mind
becomes broad and empowers him to respond more perfectly than earlier. The
brain’s capacity is not restricted to refuse new learning in life. With
infinite power in brain, a person is most capable upon earth to perform better
and better with improvement in positive attitude and learning.
Attitude and Action Process:
Merely learn and learn cannot work in life until
the learning are applied to get something fruitful happen in the life. The
students now-a-days are provided maximum work in practical form so that they
can improve their attitude to transform their job through improving the action
processes by connecting with their learning. Once actions are connected with
the learning, the knowledge originated from learning can easily be retained.
After the actions are performed again and again, they become part of the
conduct or behavior. In other words, they perform significant role in
formulation of the character which is known by the conduce and behavior of a
person.
With increase in the age, a person’s brain is
matured only if he faces the challenges of the life. The nutritional value of
food also works positively to improve the function of the brain but at the same
time, it is must to learn, apply the learning, and improve the actions to
build character.
Thought Process and Character:
The thoughts come from the beliefs i.e. what a
person believes that affects the thought process directly. The beliefs may come
from genes or environment surrounding the person. The thoughts are the source
of action and the actions when taken again and again, become part of the habits
of a person. Due to the habits, the conduct and character is judged. It is well
known that a thought reaps an action and an action reaps a habit, and a habit
reaps a character. In other words, everything depends upon the thoughts and the
thoughts depends upon the attitude. Stay optimistic, always keep energy alive
inside and be committed to achieve the targets, the success will automatically
be achieved.
Improving Attitude with Self-Study:
Each person should build positive attitude and
remain energetic by spending mostly upon studying surrounding environment
including humans and things. During a day, each person should spare time
to study self, family members, and situations which are complicated to handle.
We should get rid of misconceptions coming to mind occasionally to drive us in
the wrong direction. Mind resetting is as much important as we took bath daily
to clean the body. Negative thoughts can be removed only by concentrating upon
the things coming with positive energy and stay happy. The anger, greed,
arrogance, jealousy etc. are the results of negative thoughts. Each person
should believe in God and his / her own deeds which can be improved through
doing positive things. The polluted thoughts should be replaced with the new
energy by doing meditation. Our mind be attached with the living and non-living
things of the world and make us always fly from one place to another, it is
must to concentrate upon our ultimate aim and try to achieve the aim by doing
right things.
Self-Study is the ultimate way for being calm in
all difficult situations, and leads to enlightenment by practicing and acting
positively, responding positively, and remain in positive environment. The Self-Study
makes us realize the formations of God Almighty in various things of world. The
meditation makes us rise higher and do whatever is required for success in
life. Today, people are taking personality development courses to groom
themselves, the Self-Study helps in developing personality without the help of
external classes.
Learn from Society and contribute Society:
In society, the parents and elders are the first, from whom we learn in the childhood. First place is of mother, then father, and then others. I would like to recall a statement of Sh. I. J. Mittal, Master Trainer of DoPT, GoI; "Accept Your Elders, As They Are" and "Respect them as They make You a Successful Person"
There are two types of trees in the world, one those which give their fruit themselves such as mango, guava, banana etc. Secondly, the trees which keep their fruits hidden, such as potatoes, ginger, onions etc. Those trees which give fruits themselves stay safe and people care with giving proper manure and water and the trees become ready to give more fruits. But those trees which keep their fruits hidden, people dug them up with root and their existence become over.
The same applies to people having knowledge, skills, wealth, and powers. Those persons who put their knowledge skills wealth power etc. in serving society, taking care of others; are fortunate to get recognition, respect, and honor for their contribution in the society. While the persons who hide their knowledge skills wealth power etc. use only for self-interest, have no intention to contribute society, they are dug up with their roots and never recalled after their death, forgotten for forever. The nature gives us message to be down to earth always and contribute the society.
Attitude and Success:
It is well known that Fear of being fail leads to failure. It is due to negative attitude. When a person gains knowledge, sharpens skills, the attitude also becomes positive and success follows him. However, each failure tells to refresh knowledge and skills that is why it is said that success is born from the womb of failure. Never afraid of problems in life because every problem has a gift to make you richer in knowledge and skills.
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राष्ट्रपति रुजवेल्ट के दोनो पैर काम नही करते थे।
स्टीफन हांकिंग को तो आप जानते ही होंगे।
आज आप जहाँ भी है या कल जहाँ भी होगे इसके लिए आप किसी और को जिम्मेदार नही ठहरा सकते ,
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ये डिपेंड करता है कि आप कैसे इन्हें खर्च करते हो.
इसलिए आज चुनाव करिये - सफलता और सपने चाहिए या खोखले बहाने.!
Never Frustrate from Other's Success or Other's Happiness:
एक बात हमेशा याद रखे :
आपसी संबंधों में दूरियां बढ़ने का सबसे प्रमुख कारण "शब्दों" का और "सोच" का होता है...
कभी हम सामने वाले को समझ नहीं पाते हैं और कभी हम उसे समझा नहीं पाते हैं!!
अच्छी सोच और मधुर शब्द बोलने से आपसी संबध कभी भी सुधरे जा सकते हैं।
एक व्यक्ति को रास्ते में यमराज मिल गये वो व्यक्ति उन्हें पहचान नहीं सका। यमराज ने पीने के लिए व्यक्ति से पानी माँगा, बिना एक क्षण गंवाए उसने पानी पिला दिया। पानी पीने के बाद यमराज ने बताया कि वो उसके प्राण लेने आये हैं लेकिन चूँकि तुमने मेरी प्यास बुझाई है इसलिए मैं तुम्हें अपनी किस्मत बदलने का एक मौका देता हूँ | यह कहकर यमराज ने एक डायरी देकर उस आदमी से कहा कि तुम्हारे पास 5 मिनट का समय है | इसमें तुम जो भी लिखोगे वही हो जाएगा लेकिन ध्यान रहे केवल 5 मिनट |
उस व्यक्ति ने डायरी खोलकर देखा तो उसने देखा कि पहले पेज पर लिखा था कि उसके पड़ोसी की लॉटरी निकलने वाली है और वह करोड़पति बनने वाला है | उसने वहां लिख दिया कि उसके पड़ोसी की लॉटरी न निकले | अगले पेज पर लिखा था कि उसका एक दोस्त चुनाव जीतकर मंत्री बनने वाला है, तो उसने लिख दिया कि उसका दोस्त चुनाव हार जाए |
इस तरह, वह पेज पलटता रहा और अंत में उसे अपना पेज दिखाई दिया | जैसे ही उसने कुछ लिखने के लिए अपना पेन उठाया यमराज ने उस व्यक्ति के हाथ से डायरी ले ली और कहा वत्स तुम्हारा पांच मिनट का समय पूरा हुआ, अब कुछ नहीं हो सकता | तुमने अपना पूरा समय दूसरों का बुरा करने में व्यतीत कर दिया और अपना जीवन खतरे में डाल दिया | अंतत: तुम्हारा अंत निश्चित है | यह सुनकर वह व्यक्ति बहुत पछताया लेकिन सुनहरा मौका उसके हाथ से निकल चुका था |
शिक्षा:-
यदि ईश्वर ने आपको कोई शक्ति प्रदान की है तो कभी किसी का बुरा न सोचे, और न ही बुरा करें | दूसरों का भला करने वाला सदा सुखी रहता है और ईश्वर की कृपा सदा उस पर बनी रहती है |
सदैव प्रसन्न रहिये।
जो प्राप्त है, पर्याप्त है।।
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